Problem is a Big Problem!

Problem, it’s the most common word that we use many times a day. Quite obvious it is. We all face some sort of problem one day or the other. But, have we ever thought or analyzed about the root cause of it. Is it like we directly try to find out a solution? Or is it like we don’t even try to find a solution and just seek others to help you to come out of it.

It’s a common mentality that whenever we face a problem, may it be big or small, we just try to overcome it. We will get hyper, may feel frustrated, depressed, and helpless and would definitely regret that very moment that lead to that problem. We want a solution, not an analysis and that too quick and easy. We don’t even want to work hard to come out of it. In our society, we have another set of people who when find themselves in a trouble, don’t even try to find a solution. They will just crib about it; they will cry, blame others and will do all kind unnecessary things that won’t help them either.

My idea to come out of a problem is little different. Obviously, I too feel frustrated and depressed when I face some hard time. But one thing I never loose is my patience. With a calm mind, try to think about what went wrong at that very moment that made us land in such a situation. Analyze the situation and conditions at that time, and actions and reactions as well. In this way, we will at least get a root cause of the problem. Now try to find various ways/options to solve it.

We should always aim to find out a long term solution. Short term solutions may be effective at that point of time; however, they may not very successful and may not eliminate the problem by its root. Further, try to find a solution yourself. Seek for an advice but do not depend on others so much that without them you may feel handicap. And most importantly, believe in yourself. Stay positive and optimistic. That’s the best thing you can do to yourself.